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Toastmasters Is for Lovers




 


"The greatest gift one can give to another is to reveal himself.” Speaking in public is all about revealing oneself.


Aristotle believed that by nature humans are social beings. Aristotle also suggested that relationships were based on three different ideas: utility, pleasure and virtue. People are attracted to relationships that provide utility because of the assistance and sense of belonging that they provide. In relationships based on pleasure, people are attracted to the feelings of pleasantness when the parties engage. However, relationships based on utility and pleasure were said to be short-lived if the benefits provided by one of the partners was not reciprocated. Relationships based on virtue are built on an attraction to the others' virtuous character. Aristotle also suggested that relationships based on virtue would be the longest lasting and that virtue-based relationships were the only type of relationship in which each partner was liked for themselves.


Toastmasters opened membership to women in 1973 but today North American Toastmasters are still 80% male and average 47 in age. Toastmasters came to Mainland China in 1999 flipped the stats in favor of women, 80% of the membership, average age 24 and not an ugly one in the bunch. The explosive growth of Toastmasters in China reflects everyone’s burning desire to speak English and women do an 80/20 better job at second language acquisition than men.


Aristotle’s UTILITY is actualized in over 15,000 clubs in 130 plus countries because Toastmasters clubs are made up of a mutually supportive audience of like-minded individuals, helping each other get better at communicating with one another. The PLEASURE of honest friendship blooms in successful meetings that foster a structured non-threatening environment for self-improvement through experience. Everyone has a VIRTUOUS side but until it is revealed to others it is as silent as the fallen tree in the forest.


Getting to know one another after high school, or in college becomes ever more challenging in the world of work. Siren, an ENT doctor, manned-up to reveal his true self in Middle Kingdom Toastmasters by delivering the required ten speeches to the majority female audience. Gregarious Fisa, a student aid broker, made her presence felt from day one with her heartfelt speech performances. Over the course of a year and a half Siren and Fisa realized the wisdom of Aristotle by forging their own reciprocal virtuous-character relationship. Toastmasters is for lovers. www.zzconnect.com





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